Menstruation Myths always Rule ?

Menstruation is a phenomenon unique to girls. However, it has always been surrounded by taboos and myths that exclude women from many aspects of socio-cultural life  is that right? We are girls, a female, a lady! Yes We bleed few days in a month; its sign of our fertility. whats the need of  hiding it, at many places we see family members restrict us to go in kitchen, temples, have pickle or curd, why? Just one reason why?

Myths just don't end here, we are ordered to stay at different place from regular one,  not to touch utensils or do house chores! Come'on we say we are modern but this orthodox mentality still turns a women down. In survey this thing is cleared at many places girls even don't know about menses till the time they faced it in real. here we won't blame society but family members they should give sex education to their child. a girl feels insulted when her dress get stain from menses blood. All people laughs or whispers in ear, it gives mental disturbance to the girl who is suffering.

This menses thing has became so big that now govt. has to put tax on sanitary napkins, We really cant understand whats going on... At one place we speak about Women Empowerment and at same place our basic need is charged. and sign of married women SINDOOR and BENGALS are tax free. whats this all about.. Every girl bleed for a while in month it's not a taboo it's common to discuss. 

Now lets come to the men who sell the sanitary napkins. We have right to buy them, and We will they are our basic need . Why the hell he gets bothered when we ask him for sanitary napkin. and he troubles himself to wrap that packet twice. First from newspaper then by keeping it in black polythene. 

             

We are not angry but disappointed, the time when a female need more care at that time she get more troubles from daily run, please if a female won't bleed how next generation will come. don't make it difficult for her. Make it casual and easy, more we talk about one thing; more we educate ourselves and others about it, it will no more stay as a taboo.

our journey begins with a choice to get up, step out, and live fully........!

our journey begins with a choice to get up, step out, and live fully........!
 life i discovered has many adventures, ups and down but i was never that shattered how much am today.. my thoughts were about to explode my brain if i don't give them words.... my decision were wrong many times but i learn from them today my decision made me regret for each step i took.. feels like my decision made a worst fate i could ever get... i wants to return to the time where i started taking decision being selfish... i always had flamboyant in my thoughts about us... but today some things just erased my entire good memories all whats left behind is cruel activities i always neglected....... yes you was always the same you are today... i thought theirs something different no only my virtual fairy world imagination was different... today don't know why i believe on 'maktub' may this was my fate today where i reached my complete world has changed... i proud on my some decisions they are lucid.....you are recidivist it was me who never judged today when things are crystal clear its hard to trust... but yes you are a murderer you killed my trust n faith... i will not destroy uh cause you are already on path where you'll destroy yourself..... all the very best Nd very true good bye..!

P.S: i just wants to write something that justify someone thoughts...!

mortal or immortal

life, jivan is never been defined or if defined it could be said having emotions, reacting on happenings. yes today i'm saying words on life, emotions define life in my view....!  one express to impress and one express to share his views. communication is a base of life.
                death, mrtyu is defined by no movement, emotionally, verbally, symbolically. while calculating death and life their's a similarity too with differences. death is not only a movement less emotionless body but a cold blooded selfless body too.
           life will suffer ups and down ant its mortal will definitely lead to death but death could never lead life. according to dharma theirs a murder or death of just a body soul is immortal, it travel from one body to another for survival.
                soul (aatma) could change it's behavior or not is a big question. i know my body requires food, oxygen clothes. where soul requires a dream and desires. means requirements end with body but desire and dreams are carried with soul to another body.
                  means no one is died and no one took birth because a soul is travelling from era to era. leave mortal, immortal, life death but dreams and desires can't be left. dream isn't just a word or limitation of one's fly. dreams want wings to fly in wide sky and desire leas to negative surrounding for gaining dreams at any cost.

          back to life and death: 

                              "life's everything with dreams and death's everything with desire". 

KARMA AND DESTINY

what encounter with us eitherconstruct us or destroy us. some of my loved ones believe on fate, 

                                             cm'on i too had gone through 'alchemist' several of times. but still don't relly on "maktub" (destiny). travel diaries are never destined. they are large as sky no limitation, no boundaries, no affection. introduction to new people, culture, tradition, surrounding and 'emotions'.

                               now must talk about "karma" coz, destiny never define karma but karma completes destiny. i don't want any debate or arguement or am compailing about it. just my assumption, imagination that  karma will define my place. how a one could blame his failure on destiny or luck.

                                i don't conquer but theirs a difference, difference between sky and land, difference between fake smile and true happiness, difference between hard work and laziness. yes am not that aged or experienced person who could easily give conclusion or refrence but till the edge where my eye sight is i have seen a beggar to be beggar and a millionair to be millionair.

                        when karma defines our destiny why the beggar can't be millionair and when bad luck knocks the door of millionair he can't be beggar. may be they themselves have dcided their limitations. their lifestyle is completely opposite from each other but basic needs are same, oxygen, food, clothes and shelter. both have their needy things with them, may be millionair struggle, hard work is unseen and is far more to achieve his goals.

                where as beggare don't make efforts to stand more than a beggar or the work he does or on path he walks isn't right one. in my view god is not partial. he gave equal things to everyone, that's oneselves how he utilize it to define his life. 

                    that means "karma" define "destiny". destiny couldn't be pre-decided it's us who re-create it each second with our passion, confidence, attitude, gratitude towards one's affection, emotional behaviour towards each thing and work.

a lonely journey

A Lonely Journey

The sunsets on this lonely town,and the darkness creeps in.The streets are empty tonight,as the lights slowly go dim.

A boy sitting on his bed alone,stares up at the stars above.He is planning to leave town,to find his one true love.

His bags are packed and ready,his room he gives one last look.A note on the fridge for his parents,In place of a picture he took.

He leaves his home crying softly,this journey has just begun.On his way into the real world,to find his special someone.

The darkness swallows him whole,but he makes his way through,just waiting for any chance,to tell a girl, 'I love you'.

LIKE A ROSE

Your beauty is like that of a rose,such delicacy and fragrance that everyone knows,the loveliness satisfies even the most obscured,and beauty such as this can't be described in one word,

The aroma of a rose is so fragrant,and just like it,you have that same lovable scent,a scent that can be smelt from miles away,and must be followed at any time of any day,

Your skin is so soft and gentle,it has the tenderness of a newly picked rose petal,a feeling that soothes the very edge of your fingers,and when not being felt,that soft feeling still lingers,

The thorns contribute to it's protection,but this kind of pain gives greater affection,and just like the thorns,you can also harm,not only a guys heart,but also his love and his charm,it all depends on the way you are retrieved,tenderness and delicacy are what should be achieved,

Your beauty is like that of a rose,such delicacy and fragrance that everyone knows,the loveliness satisfies even the most obscured,and beauty such as this can't be described in one word

BOND OF FRIENDSHIP

From the day that I first knew you, Your heart was pure and kind; Your smile was sweet and innocent, Your wit was well refined.

The sparkle in your eyes was keen, Your friendship fast and real; Soft words were your virtue, And humor your appeal.

We grew as friends together, We laughed and shared our dreams; Along the way crush or two, Went unrevealed, it seems.

As years rolled on, our paths were split, Our roads went separate ways; We each pursued our interests, That occupied our days.

We soon forgot our childhood bliss, Of tender carefree years; We didn't talk or keep in touch, Throughout life's pain and tears.

Then my darkest hour came, And tried me to my core; To save my heart from ruin, I closed and locked the door.

Then out of every nowhere, With precise directed cue; An old familiar smile, Came slowly into view.

Although much time was gone, And the die of fate long cast; It was as if we hadn't missed, A second of the past.

You listened with attentive care, And reassured my mind; That loving hearts are still alive, With purpose and design.

Deep inside I've locked way, Emotions yet untold; As time goes on, and bonds grow strong, They will all unfold.

So thank you, friend, for taking time, To demonstrate your love; It's yet another blessing that, I'm undeserving of

WE BELONG TOGETHER

Here is a place for you and me, A special place for only us two, We have a special bond that no one can see, It's tightly wrapped in a cocoon, We are fiercely together in this magical place, Even through times when threads might break, But every time a new one awakes, To bring us closer and keep us strong, In this very special place in which together we belong..!

SOULMATEs

I’ve never believed in soul mates or in something I can’t see but we have a deep connection now I believe in destiny How can I feel I know you? There’s so much I need to say My God… I think I love you- What makes me feel this way? No longer am I denying what is so damn plain to see I just can’t keep from thinking that God created you for me And I know that you can feel it deeper than your blood and bone So come over here and love me make this empty heart your home We’re not getting any younger- I’m just waiting for a sign Why go looking any further? Let our two lives intertwine If you look into my eyes you’ll see lives we lived before We’ve had so many lifetimes and there will be ten thousand more I’ve never been more certain what I feel just can’t be wrong I know you are the soul mate I’ve been searching for so long

LIFE

you wanna cry, but u can't....! you wants to shout, but u can't...! you want to live yur life by yur own decisions..not by situation u look near you u find yurself alone but u r standing in crowd of thousads people who really dont care about uh whats happening? each time uh ask yourself why me? and answer is no where..! yes you will live..! this phase is just for while just like bad nightmare...! you will wake in morning with new hopes n determination you will take yur decisions nor situation...! but for that let this nightmare end... let you open your eye... let you bring strength to speak n stand against world...!